Why It's Okay Not to Have Many Friends and How to Appreciate It

I stumbled upon a picture of my friend's wedding on Instagram. There were people around her, people who used to be my friends too and I was not there. Oh well, I'm not inside the circle anymore, I guess. As I was observing it, I was wondering why most of my friendship didn't last long. I never had more that 7 people in my packs and most of them drifted away and move on with their lives as I move to another place. I find that I questioned myself a lot. Where is everyone? Is something wrong with me?

How I Start Decluttering

I used to be the best at hoarding. I loved to buy multiple ‘back-ups’ and ‘alternatives’ or just call it the ‘just in case’ items. The thing with ‘just in case’ item is, I never stop buying them, and they start to pile up more and more. In the end, I caught myself busy taking care of those stuffs, wasting my time and energy on dusting, rearranging, and all other responsibilities that comes from owning an item. I have lost my time, my energy, and my money. Imagine if you can switch all of those time and energy to do something more productive and meaningful.